Romantic words for your Valentine

Try these out on your husband this year on Valentine's Day.by Jennifer Dyer
The other day my husband said one of the most romantic things I'd heard in my entire life: "Go lie down or take a bath. I'll do the dishes." 

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Your Husband is Just a Man.

Our meeting last week was an 'Ask the Mentors' meeting, where an entire MOPS meeting is devoted to moms asking Mentors anything.  It is one of our most talked about and popular meetings.  Questions often are about moms and the juggling we do with our children and husbands and ourselves.

One of our Mentors, Sandy Joseph, has a blog and before the meeting she posted the following.  Its a pretty simple thought but one that us wives need to repeat to ourselves often "Believe it or not, your husband is just a man."

For years, I had huge expectations and put pressure on Bill to be my all in all, to make me feel loved and secure. I was so frustrated and disappointed each time he did not live up to my expectations. I tried all kinds of woman manipulation (you know, crying, nagging, silence, Bible verses ….) to get him to do what I wanted. Yet, I was disappointed, not because Bill wasn’t trying, but because I needed to learn that no man/woman/child/friend can replace what only God can provide. My desire to be loved, secure and happy can only be found through my relationship with the living God.

Click here to read more from Sandy.

William and Kate

The recent news that Prince William and Kate Middleton are engaged is the perfect story for this hyped-up, celebrity-driven world. Three days after the announcement, I saw that there were over 8,000 stories about the royal couple on Google News. One headline appropriately read, "Middleton gets her man: Let the massive global overkill begin."


From the media I learned that:

• If my name was William and my wife's name was Kate, we could get free pizzas at Domino's.
• One of the most crucial questions for our world over the next few months will be what Kate's wedding dress will look like, and who will design it.
• I could help bring England's economy out of the doldrums by ordering souvenir plates and paperweights.
• Bookies were taking bets on what date the wedding will fall on, where they'll go on their honeymoon, and even what color the bridesmaids will wear.
• Since, in our world of social media, everything is really all about me, I could participate in a poll on, "Is Kate right for William?" and even pass on tips to the royals on how to have a good marriage.

The only notes of concern came from observers who were worried about whether Kate was wise to marry into the royal family. As one headline stated, "From Princess Diana to Sarah Ferguson, British royal marriages rarely end happily ever after."

Even those concerns, however, reveal something interesting about human character: In this cynical world of rampant divorce, people want marriages to succeed. As one writer said last week, "If any of you have ever stumbled across my ramblings before, you will know that I am not a big fan of our royals. So I found myself somewhat at a loss last night to understand why I (oh the shame) had a tear in my eye as I watched Kate and William talk of their engagement ... It was, I suppose, because we're all suckers for a love story. We had one, or so we mistakenly thought, with Diana and Charles. Now it's her son's chance to put it right."

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MOPS Meeting Resources - Pornography

Sandy had a list of some radio programs from Family Life on her blog relating to the issue of our last meeting, pornography. You won't want to miss out on hearing these.